Halloween doesn’t have to be a difficult day for kids in wheelchairs. I always loved being challenged to come up with a costume that incorporated, or dare I say, disguised Ben’s wheelchair.

I’m not a wallower.

Never have been. And we’ve had a pretty difficult last few years – from managing a premature birth and a five-month NICU stay to a child with significant needs, caring for triplets, dealing with child loss, trying to figure out this new life.  I probably have plenty to be angry about, as many others do in this world. And I am angry.  And some days I do wonder ‘why me?’ But …we are also Blessed.But instead of waste